Tuesday, February 17, 2009

Critical Approaches concerning Autism

Aside from our early detection of the condition and how severe the case, there are positive steps to take that could very well mean the difference not just with how positive the outcome but overall the chances of success.

· Be involved with your child’s development: Don’t just leave the education of your child on the hands of professionals. No one can love and care more than you about your child’s progress. Yes, we all lead busy lives but we can make a minimal investment in their therapy. Make at least a habit of reading literature on the subject, keep a positive mind, and spend some quality time with your sibling. Engage him, don’t just shout orders and expect results. Be very patient and persistent, and don’t get discourage if at first you don’t see results. No matter how severe an illness, the main ingredient to make a successful recovery is love.
· Keep a diary of his achievements, regardless of how little they may seem. And don’t limit it to written form: videotape your child’s sessions, record the words that come out of his/her mouth, post pictures and join conversations with other parents in your situation. You could make a blog of your little one’s progress. In this diary, you can design goals you can assist your child in achieving.
· Connect with others in general. You can and you should keep open the lines of communication with everyone involved in your child’s development. Challenge any misappropriate behavior you may find harmful for your child’s well-being, ask questions and get to know everything there is to know concerning his/her.
· Enjoy and learn to unconditionally love your child’s imperfections. You yourself aren’t perfect and your child certainly won’t ever be. He or she is in an immaculate state where everything is permitted and where you represent an obstacle. See things through his/her eyes. It’s a fascinating world they inhabit. Maybe you yourself can learn about disengagement and lead a less stressful life.

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