Every little detail has to be paid importance. Your presence should create a magical spell. Ignore those who resist you. These people won’t have much pleasure to give, if they refuse to receive your gift, make them earn it. Time is precious: follow promising prospects, moment to moment, enjoy the most precious moment of all: now. Of course, you need to take your time and don’t rush in. Some relationships will flourih from a moment to the next and just end in that same fashion, just as quickly as it had began. We shouldn't punish ourselves for what we want; we should man up to it. Let's take what's ours.
Don’t settle for less; always aim for more, be selective, take things slow. At least for the first few moments, if your act is enacted properly, these will seem like an eternity. Initially, give them and yourself space to breath, relax in their presence, let them have a chance to see you. When they do notice you, first thing they’ll scan for is your level of confidence. Are you comfortable in your own skin? Do they have an impact on you way before there is an interaction between the two of you? Is he only after “ass”? Your demeanor, and not your words, will quiet their doubts, will create an aura of mystery and give rise to curiosity. And now, still hold on to your guns. In her presence, you are to be as comfortable as usual. Practice in private, take time to visualize the moments you daily face and rehearse them well before you execute them in the real world. Look, there really isn’t any world outside the mental realm. We are psychological creatures, not logical, respond to stimuli more or less the same as animals... except we get to later look back and somehow rationalize our actions. Insecurities and dreams, our self-image will show its face. Character is something you build, like muscles. You don't have to be the rudest, but you show plenty of kindness. Give always a little more of yourself, anyway you can. It is not a gift unless you let others enjoy it. Think of your gifts as toys you get to play with.
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