1) No needy attitude: The sole notion that females prefer emotional types is a farce. In reality, women tend to run away from needy prototypes of men, the ones who often get attached too soon. Even if your girl is all for you, given and caring, you shouldn’t get too comfortable and forget that there sexiness is often derived from some degree of mystery and wonder left in the relationship. Don’t be cold; taking things in a cool manner. Like I have said many times before, using the metaphor of water: if you are to shower someone with affection, make sure that the water running is not too cold or too hot either.
2) Sense of adventure: Instead of taking her to that predictable routine on Friday and Saturday nights, or to the movies on Tuesdays, surprise her taking her to a new dance club or a different place. Make sure that you check out the place’s prices to avoid over spending and always shop around to make the best of your money. But if you really want to go all out, you should work hard to earn a great night at least once every two weeks.
3) Listen to her: Although this seems self-explanatory itself, it is not as simple as it seems. But the more you try it, the better it works.
4) Hygiene: Be very careful with the way you smell; shower daily; dress with clean attire; clean cut haircut and fingernails.
5) Displaying masculinity: This is to be learnt in time. Have a graveness to your expression, an air of seriousness and control in the way you handle things and others. Be alert and carefree, not completely bounded by your duty. Be humorous but don’t become a clown.
6) A gift here and there, not too expensive not too cheap either (around the $45 mark): On a weekly basis, if you don’t take her out at the very least give her some decent gift. This goes a very long way for women. Don’t strain yourself economically but don’t be cheap either.
7) Have cash ready: Always have more cash than you plan to spend. But don’t have it at your immediate disposition for you will be forced to waste it as well.
8) Have either a car or a place to crash of your own (chances increase by at least 20% alone if you have both). If you don’t have a place to take her, forget about the numbers nine and tens. You can always aspire to better prototypes of females if you have good looks and a decent set of wheels.
9) Don’t forget to work out: Working out is almost mandatory. It increases your sex appeal and your confidence. It will increase the levels of testosterone in your blood, which is what makes us men. On top of that, it makes us look and feel better.
10) Keeping an account on details: Add up psychological points by paying attention to details. This is very difficult for us guys but remembering something she said or something she said she liked and surprising her with it later on, goes a very long, long way.
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