Androgyny and balance

Generally, male traits are composed of a whole variety of skills that may at times cover some of the qualities that belong to the feminine type. Among the most admired by women, however, are a display of confidence in our ability to handle anything that life confronts us with: endurance. Aggression could take the form of being poised on our projects, dealing with problems wholly and simply demand more out of life. Independence is the ability to choose what is best for ourselves in any given situation, and even though many of us think that being married might take away some of the fun out, is a false assessment. Our relationship with a significant other is a perfect opportunity to show our strength and power without the necessity to abuse it, and not to tolerate in our partner anything in her behavior that makes us feel weak and defenseless. We are man, and one way to show so is to gradually give signs of healthy independence, and demand to take no less than what you give in. It may seem a terrifying thing to do for the usual laid-back attitude, the individual who unquestionably gives in to pressure without putting much of a fight whether it comes from their social life, job, marriage, or in any situation that may manifest itself. Competition is an undeniable aspect of our nature, culturally ingrained since early on in life. But because some of us lack the proper guidance, we may suffer exercising the wrong role in our lives. Assistance is on the way, and it is never too late to claim back what is rightly yours. Others will admire you for it. After all, you’re not the lazy type that pretentiously asks for his share of respect and space but a hard working man who is entitled to his very own. This is healthy for you and your partner: as a matter of fact, females are more at ease with dominant and unemotional males who are all about business. This doesn’t mean that you should confront your significant others every time an issue manifests itself and it doesn’t mean either that you should take advantage of your position; it means that you better start claiming back the due respect and the amicable harmony that should reign between the two of you is a must. In other words, change is gradually attained, an acquired taste. If you are empowered, it is something your lover should appreciate if she really cares for you.



Feminine
tactful
quiet
aware of feelings of others
need for security
easily express tender feelings
contemplative
kind

Masculine

ambitious
aggressive
independent
dominant
competitive
makes decisions easily